I know. It will also affect you and your job, if we decide to go.
我知道。假如我们决定去的话, 也会影响到你和你的工作。
and realized that it was a sign that the child was growing up and developing valuable powers of observation and independent judgment,
并且意识到这象征着孩子们正在成熟和发展宝贵的观察力、独立判断力,